Memories of January

Let me start this post with a beautiful shot of Ormoc Bay I took when I had to say goodbye to my home and a smiling me. :)

How time flies! It's February already, January flew away like a paper in the wind. So many things and goals to do this 2013. I have always been the crazy kind of a person who does things and sometimes, don't finish it, but not this year please. This year, I plan to do a few things that I have never done before and/or have been putting off for a long time.

To start off the year, I met my friends for dinner. This was a promise we made before the year started, that we'll go grab dinner to celebrate the new year. We ended up just eating and talking. :)

I had to do this on my own.

And then, I got sick, and I  don't mean I got a fever, I meant the painful sick. Apparently, my immune system got weak during the Christmas holidays and I got a lump over my lower back, full of pus. I'm not gonna share you the details, it's all gory and eewwwyyyy. So anyway, for a full week I was in constant pain and needed pain meds to get through the day. It was almost three weeks before I got better and until now, the lump is still there.

Pain meds and antibiotic among other tings.

 Then there was Sinulog. If you know me, then you know I absolutely hate crowds, unless I know I'm secured with the air I breathe, literally. I get so anxious when I'm in a crowd that I almost always pass out because I couldn't breathe. I ended up celebrating Sinulog at the rooftop of Harolds Hotel with good friends for company. Drinking beer and good conversations are a perfect match to make a great Sinulog memory.

Two nights before Sinulog, we went out and had fun in this magical place. 

We got high and then we got headaches, but the memories was lovely.

Sinulog night, drinking out with friends and fireworks!

Awesome friends for an awesome vacation.

I traveled, this was far by the best thing that happened to my new year. Traveling early in the year would mean I get to travel the whole year round, well I hope the universe would allow me to do saw. And if my travel is any indication of my travels are gonna go, then I'm gonna have a great travel experience this year. I went to Boracay with two of my favorite friends, Mai-Mai and Idyll. This was planned last year and the ticket were bought last year too. We had so much fun there, we even met a new friend. :) So many details I hope my memory could retain. We did water sports, and my favorite was the para-sailing and thank God for the new friend because if it weren't for him, I wouldn't even dare of doing it. But I found myself in the skies and my eyes was full of endless beauty and my heart filled with calmness and peacefulness I never imagined I'd ever feel.

Well, that's not me, but that's how we sail!

The water was just lovely and so was the jetski experience! Oh and the sunset too!

My January ended, the holiday air might be gone, but memories of January lingers on to me.

When I got sick, I went home to Ormoc. My mom made me pancakes <3 br="">Best memory ever. I love my parents so much

February is here, and I hope to make more great memories with this month, the month of love. :)

When I'm Gone

I guess at one point in my life I’ll just have to learn to move on and get over with it all. When I say all, I mean everything, from your dazzling eyes to your quirky personality, from all the memories we shared and those fantasies of mine that never happened.

Until such time will come, let me enjoy the things that would eventually bring me heartaches. I’ll breath your all ‘till i can release them through my tears when I’ll finally give you up.

I know, I will never have you, I never had a chance. But even though I know that perfectly well, a part of me still hopes. And until the day that part of me dies, I’ll continue on loving you even when you can’t feel the same.

Don’t worry over me because I chose this and I will move on and get over you. You will miss me, I’ll make sure of that. When I’m gone, I will leave you with the sweet scent of my love. You’re going to miss me when I’m gone.

Summer of Grace

Dear Summer,

I know it's been a long time, a very long time. My apologies for forgetting. 

You have given me an awesome one, Summer. I enjoyed a few more moments with you and I got a job as you end. It was then that I realized that even though I will be unable to enjoy you the way I have in the past, you of all seasons, bring me the best of lucks. 

Only a few days before I will experience that powerful moment of leaving this year and going into a new one.  I have realized that I have changed and the world have changed for me. I now see things differently. My innocence has been taken by the harshness of the real world, though grace and purity still lies inside of me. 

It is not easy. Friends drift apart and people come and go. I meet new people and reconnect with old friends. People do surprise you, or maybe, the universe surprise you. You get a new meaning when you wake up early in the morning and go home late because of work. And the routine that I hate most has become a part of me. 

I constantly find myself stuck. I am stuck with the same people, stuck with my work and stuck on a special person. Not that I am ungrateful of these. Being with the same people gives you a certain familiarity, they feel like home in a warm sunny day. I am only thankful that in times of these crazy emotions, I know I can run to someone. 

Ah, but of course I mean a friend, a very good friend of mine. In the course of this year, I have also realized that love for thyself and for others is important. It is only when one love thyself can they truly love others, even if it hurts. And I mean this in a very platonic way. The last six months have been challenging for me, but of course, it wasn't Summer, and I have nowhere to escape anymore when June comes. 

So many heartaches this year but looking at the bright side, so many opportunities also opened up. There is only one thing that the world would ask from you, TIME. This is what you have to sacrifice in order to get where you want to be. You lose the time for your friends, for your family and even for yourself. This has come to my attention, and I have realized this a bit too late. In 2013, I have decided to spend my time wisely. 

But I think I'm writing too much. Summer, I wish I could crawl back in to the beach and lie in the sand, just enjoying the warm sunshine in my skin. Oh how I long for the summer wind to take me away. I'll see you again until then, I shall live life to the fullest.

Review: Will Grayson, Will Grayson

I fell into the young adult novel bandwagon when I first read Perks of Being a Wallflower. I realized that I absolutely love books with theme of finding oneself because in some way or another, I can relate to it.

I first read John Green based on a recommendation by a friend who urged me to read The Fault in Our Stars. Well, the title already persuaded me. Believe me, I’m such a sucker for good titles. The Fault in Our Stars was a very good book; it made me both cry and laugh. And so, because Green was good in this book, maybe he is a good writer after all.

 So I read, Looking for Alaska, and boom, not a disappointment.

And so, this is the start of my quest to read all John Green books. I came about Will Grayson, Will Grayson, a collaboration of John Green and David Levithan. And I tell you, this far is my favorite book from Green.

Plot:

One cold night, in a most unlikely corner of Chicago, two teens—both named Will Grayson—are about to cross paths. As their worlds collide and intertwine, the Will Graysons find their lives going in new and unexpected directions, building toward romantic turns-of-heart and the epic production of history’s most fabulous high school musical.

The story revolves around two high school kids, same name, with totally different lives. One unexpected night, in a porn store, they met each other. And this forever changed their lives. Somehow, it is a love story, but not entirely. The book tells us about denial, accepting, rejection, unrequited love and platonic love.

I am glad that this book simply tells the story of normal high school kids, all of whom are finding their selves with the help of their circle of friends. Each of the characters stories are well woven in a binding story that leaves a mark on your heart. Even the “best friends” of the characters have stories of their own that made this book more refreshing than it is.

I absolutely fell in love with this book because: it is funny, it is well written by both authors, it is simple and yet realistic, both Will Graysons are great and Tiny Cooper.

The quotes of the books were all great. J I cannot believe that I kept on posting in my facebook and twitter the quotes of this book.

I highly recommend this book. Laugh and cry with Will Graysons, and then feel proud of them. The original Will Grayson who chose his best friend and the Will Grayson who accepted himself.

Great book is great!

Let me offer you a view with all these awesome quotes:

“You like someone who can't like you back because unrequited love can be survived in a way that once-requited love cannot. ” 

“When things break, it's not the actual breaking that prevents them from getting back together again. It's because a little piece gets lost - the two remaining ends couldn't fit together even if they wanted to. The whole shape has changed.”  

“I do not say 'good-bye.' I believe that's one of the bullshittiest words ever invented. It's not like you're given the choice to say 'bad-bye' or 'awful-bye' or 'couldn't-care-less-about-you-bye.' Every time you leave, it's supposed to be a good one. Well, I don't believe in that. I believe against that.” 

“This is why we call people exes, I guess - because the paths that cross in the middle end up separating at the end. It's too easy to see an X as a cross-out. It's not, because there's no way to cross out something like that. The X is a diagram of two paths.” 

“i will admit there's a certain degree of giving a fuck that goes into not giving a fuck. by saying you don't care if the world falls apart, in some small way you're saying you want it to stay together, on your terms.” 

“Being in a relationship, that's something you choose. Being friends, that's just something you are. . . [But] I do pick you. . . We've been friends too long to pick, but if we could pick, I'd pick you.” 

“need is never a good basis for any relationship. it has to be much more than that.” 

“that's it - hundreds of texts and conversations, thousands upon thousands of words spoken and sent, all boiled down into a single line. is that what relationships become?” 

“You know what’s a great metaphor for love? Sleeping beauty. Because you have to plow through this incredible thicket of thorns in order to get to beauty, and even then, when you get there, you still have to wake her up.”

 “maybe there's something you're afraid to say, or someone you're afraid to love, or somewhere you're afraid to go. it's gonna hurt. it's gonna hurt because it matters.”  

The Beauty of Unrequited Love

I’ve fallen for you. I don’t know how or when it happened, I just did. I fell hard and no one was there to catch me, not even you. But that’s okay, that’s what I get for devoting a piece of my heart to someone who can’t even looked at me the way I looked at him.

It might have happened the first time you smiled at me. Or maybe that one time when you looked so concern when I almost lost my balance, you were there to catch me then. I don’t know, I can’t be sure now. But I did fell for you, and I do like you. I like you very much.

I want you to stand in the ocean. See that? That’s how much I like you, maybe even bigger and wider than the sea.

I want you to dance in the rain. Feel that? That’s how silly I feel when you’re around me, but it always makes me happy, always.

I want you to watch Somewhere in Time. Got that? I will go back in time if I can and have that moment with you.

Have you heard of the song I Will? No? How about this:

Who knows how long I’ve loved you?

You know I love you still

Will I wait a lonely lifetime?

If you want me to I will.

So yeah, if you want me to, I will wait for you. This song might sound sad when it starts, but it’s actually a really happy song. 

I love you forever and forever

I love you with all my heart

And really, it is a song about waiting for the right person. And yes, I am waiting for the right person and I’m hoping it is you.

But I know, we have to face reality. You and I? Might never happened. But I guess that’s the beauty of unrequited love, it grows even when it doesn’t get the attention it deserves. It grows in a way that once-requited love cannot. Yes, I read that somewhere. And I can actually say, that much is true.

Can you imagine? Liking someone for so long. Devoting so much of oneself to someone who doesn’t even care. Now that is love, unrequited that is.

I daydream all the time. There would be this one time that you’d suddenly ask me out for coffee, we talk, you realized how much in common we have, you ask me out again. And that’s how we start our love story. 

Or maybe we got stuck in the rain. We talk, we laugh and we dance in the rain. You realized you like me, you ask me out. And that’s how we start our love story.

So many scenarios, none of them may even happen. But these thoughts actually make me happy in a way that people who have never felt this way will never be able understand. Like they say, wishing and dreaming is free after all.

I read once that when you wish exactly at 11:11, you’re wish will come true. I wished for you. :)

But I know, these things will never happen. So let me be with them. Don’t try to act like you care, because it’ll only make me fall harder. Don’t try to make me feel special, because it’ll only hurt me. And don’t say “we’re just friends,” because that much I know. 

I like you, I might even love you, but know this, I know where I stand. You’ll always be the guy I’ve devoted years of my life, without you even noticing. But that’s fine, I chose this. I chose you. Or rather, my heart did. 

And you know what, you’re so vain you probably think this blog is about you.


Disclaimer: This is just some random rant.  

Imperfect to Perfect Escapades

One fine day, my close friend called me up. Like what we usually do, we say hi, hello and asked how each other is. Of course, there is always something to rant about!

We both decided we needed a break. She was having a rough time and I was being too emotional with many things. Bottom line is, we were both having crap in our lives we just needed to breathe in and out. Suggestion came flying in and we finally settle on going to Moalboal. We both love the beach and my god, it'll be so relaxing to just lay around the beach all day. We set the date, it'll be on November 17.

You cannot believe how so much things can happen in a span of three to four weeks. We almost never got the break we deserved. But I pushed her into doing it and we ended up in a perfect escapade. :)

We realized that Moalboal is too far away and it's a little expensive. So we ended up going to Crimson Resort. I absolutely loved that day! Just the two of us, taking a nap in the beach, swimming with fishes, eating food, and living the resort life!

That was the break I needed, and she needed. But wait, we're not yet done. We promised to do something on February. I wonder where we're going, but definitely out of Cebu!

Yey to good friendships and imperfect escapades!

The beautiful view of the pool

Traditional vanity shot near the pool :)

With the good/great/best friend.

The view from our lounger, the beach is beautiful!

Fitness Buff??

I was never skinny and the truth is, I never dreamt to be one. I have attempted losing weight a lot of times, but none of them really worked. I think because I lack determination. 

Last Saturday, I enrolled myself in the gym. I was about to make an excuse to a friend who suggested it, but I told myself that I need to do this. And before I changed my mind, I told my friend that I will be seeing her in the gym that day. And so, the journey starts. 

I will not promise that this will last, because honestly, I am not yet ready to make that commitment to myself. I know, why am I doing this if I can't even commit it, right? But c'mon, I work 10 hrs a day, I barely have time to relax at home and I often sleep early because I have to work again early the next day. That is my routine. 

Today was my first time to go to the gym from work. I told myself that I had to bring my gym clothes and things to work with me, because if I don't, then I will never be able to go to the gym. If I have decided to go home before going to the gym, that would have been the end of it. There are too many temptations at home, there is the laptop, the bed, the bed, the bed. You know what I mean. So far, it was okay but it really is tiring. I am still trying to figure things on how this will work out. I am hopeful to keep this lifestyle. I intend to do it on a long term basis. 

My diet? I don't have a specific diet yet. I try not to eat pork anymore and not eating much for dinner. I am keeping a food diary where I can write what I ate. Studies show that people who keep food diaries are more likely to lose weight. So this is a start. Why I don't have a diet yet? Again, I work 10 hours a day, I don't know where I can insert my dinner and I really have no idea what to eat before going to the gym. I don't want to eat just anything. I want to eat light, but I always think that I might passed out in the gym. So yeah, I need to research this. Trial and error is the key. So my diet needs to be more specific and more planned. I hope to do a diet plan for myself in a month's time. Quite long, I know, but like I said, I'm still trying to work things out and understanding everything. I don't want to jump in another diet wagon just because it worked on Kate Middleton or Britney Spears. I need research, hello!

Why am I doing this? For my health. I want to be more fit. I want to be able to run 3kms without hurting myself. I want to be able to go into a crowd without having my anxiety attacks. But let's not kid each other, why of course I want to fit in small sizes. Of course, I want to look good. Of course I want to be 50lbs lighter. Of course, these are just some reasons. I will not lie, other than health purposes, I also want to look good for myself. The confidence that I will have! Imagine!

Let's stay fit everyone!